Monday, November 28, 2016

Advent Waiting

Advent 1 A 2016
                                                           Rev. Adam T. Trambley                                  
November 27, 2016, St. John’s Sharon

Waiting.  Advent is a season of waiting.  The very word Advent means that something is coming, that something is moving toward us, that something will be here. 

But not all waiting is the same, not even all waiting during Advent.

We know the waiting we will do for Christmas.  Not for the first Christmas – it is hard to wait for something that has already occurred, although we can prayerfully and liturgically enter into that first incarnational event.  But we wait for our next Christmas, December 25, 2016.  The season of preparation and waiting for that day really began a few days ago on Black Friday, but we can transfer the feast to this First Sunday of Advent.  This waiting for Christmas is a particular kind of waiting because we know when and what we are waiting for.  In four weeks, there will be a beautiful Christmas service at church, there will be celebrations according to our own family traditions, and there will be exchanges of gifts.  Depending on our age and our particular outlook, we may wait for those events with different degrees of excitement, preparation, or even trepidation. 

Part of waiting for Christmas is knowing what we should be doing while we are waiting.  Make the Christmas lists.  Buy the presents.  Send the Christmas cards.  Bake the cookies.  Wrap the presents.  Put up the Christmas tree.  Decorate the house.  Take some cookies to the priest.  Go to Christmas services.  Box up all the cookies and gifts and go to the Christmas party. 

All of these preparations can be overwhelming, but we know how to do them.  And we know what we are expecting when Christmas comes, at least generally.  Sure, some Christmases are better than others, but we always hope for the best ones.  When we get the toys that we want.  When the snow is beautiful on the grass but not on the streets so all the family can get home.  When uncle Joe comes to dinner before he started drinking instead of after.  When everybody gets along and the food doesn’t burn and the little ones are happy and we hear our favorite carols and all seems right with the world, at least for a while.

This Christmas waiting is important and takes place during the Advent season, but it’s not the same as Advent waiting.  Advent waiting is a different kind of waiting. Advent waiting is waiting for a day that we can’t mark on our calendars.  Advent waiting is waiting that doesn’t steadily rise to a peak of excitement and get cleanly resolved like a Hallmark Hall of Fame holiday movie.  Advent waiting is not waiting for the child’s gift but waiting for the deepest longing of mature hearts that have become all too familiar with the world’s brokenness and pain.

Advent waiting is the waiting for the Messiah to return, and such waiting is the work of nothing less than a lifetime.

We practice this waiting in a particular way during Advent, because the preparation of God’s people for the first coming of the Messiah is the same kind of waiting we are called to do today. As we read the prophets poetry describing the details of the great Day of the Lord, we can see parallels of our own deepest desires.  For four weeks, we focus on stoking the flames of our imaginations as we hear holy language pointing our hearts in that heavenly direction. 

This morning Isaiah lays out a particular longing of his people preparing for the coming Christ.  Looking around at the wars laying waste to the house of Jacob, as well as all the nations of the world, Isaiah envisions a time when swords will be beaten into plowshares and spears into pruning hooks.  When the Caesars and the Pharaohs, the despots and dictators, and all those relying on violence to consolidate power and privilege will come to Jerusalem to attend Sunday School classes.  Well, maybe Sabbath School classes, and maybe not the way we think about them, but Isaiah depicts them coming to the Mount of the Lord for instruction on how to live according to the God’s commandments so the world aligns with what the prophets are waiting for.  For the time, as the prophet Amos describes, when justice will roll down like mighty waters and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream or the time when, as the psalmist writes, the needy will not be forgotten nor the hope of the poor be taken away.  This vision of the great day of the Messiah’s coming is the deepest longing of people who have seen violence and war and injustice and oppression, where cities are destroyed, the innocent killed, and the needy sold for a pair of sandals.  Those of us who have seen war or lost loved ones in war or have been in countries under the control of violent dictators know the longing for the coming of the day of the Lord that Isaiah and the prophets describe.  With that longing comes the knowledge that treaties come and go, alliances and cease fires come and go, prosperity and what passes for peace come and go.  Events during the course of our life may be better or worse, but they are not ultimately what we are waiting for.  We are waiting for the day Isaiah describes, but we can’t put that date into our Google calendar and start a countdown.  Our waiting for that day is advent waiting.

Wednesday our parish lost David Bricker.  Friday was the twelfth funeral so far this year, and a number of other parishioners are currently in hospice care.  Most of us have lost loved ones – and some of us have lost spouses, children or others whose deaths have taken a significant part of our own hearts with them.  We know that life continues, that we can still find moments of joy and love, and that new life continues to be born into our families, but we also know a loss remains that will not go away.  That pain and emptiness points us to the longing for the new life of resurrection.  Our deep desire for that resurrection directs our hearts to that day when the trumpet sounds and the resurrected Lord returns, bringing the dead up from their graves into the fullness of life in the new and eternal Jerusalem.  Yet our own preparations can’t hasten that glorious day.  Waiting for that day is advent waiting.

We could all probably look deep inside and find those places where life has scarred us, scarred our families, and scarred our communities.  Places where the brokenness of our physical bodies, of our emotional health, and of our longed-for relationships seem impossible to heal.  Places where we have done all we can do, yet where undeniable damage remains.  In those places, we either give in to despair, or we learn the waiting of Advent.   We can open our minds and hearts to the possibility of a power greater than ourselves who can actually bring healing and new life.  We can come to trust in the promises of the power of God, not for the Pollyanna pleasures of a time or a season, but for the recreation of the cosmos at the end of the long arc that bends towards justice, for the forgiveness of sins that allow us to live together in an eternal community, and for the resurrection of the body that allows us to integrate our own scars and stigmatas into an imperishable body living where there is no pain nor grief, no tears nor sorrow, but where all eat of the fruit of the trees for the healing of the nations and drink from the springs of the waters of life.  We can cry out with our entire being for this day of salvation, but we can’t order it from Amazon Prime for two-day delivery.  We have to wait for it, and we have to wait for it without knowing when it will come, what exactly it will look like, or how we will be changed as we wait.  But we will wait for that day regardless. 

Waiting for that day is Advent waiting, waiting for a time we can’t know, for gifts we can’t wrap, and with a guest list we can’t even imagine.  Advent waiting is waiting for what is entirely in the hands of our heavenly Father.

However, while we wait with deep longing for that day, our readings advise us to do two things.  The first comes from Paul, who tells us not to fill that space inside us that longs for Christ’s coming with distractions.  He says to put away revelry and drunkenness, debauchery and licentiousness, quarrelling and jealousy.  We are always tempted to fill up the painful parts of our lives with food, drugs, violence, greed, and anything else that provides a strong enough stimulant to dull our pain.  Don’t do it, Paul says.  Instead, wake up and actively wait for the day.  Let our longing propel us to pray harder and get closer to Jesus.  Let the holes in our hearts be hollowed out into the shape of the Messiah such that no one and no thing but Jesus could possibly fill them.  Let us learn to reject anything less than the final fulfillment of our Advent waiting.

Then in the gospel today, Jesus says that people will be going about their daily lives when he does finally come.  People will be marrying and working in the fields and doing all the various things we do.  We have to do all the stuff of life while we are waiting.  But he also tells us not to forget to wait.  The work of this life is important -- it just isn’t a substitute for the Advent waiting for the next life.  We are to go about our business, but not forget to practice waiting while we do so. 

Advent is the time for us to practice waiting.  We wait for the return of the Messiah.  We wait for the fullness of the Kingdom of God.  We wait for the resurrection of ourselves and those we love.  We wait without knowing the day or the hour or precisely what that day or hour will look like.  We wait knowing we may leave this life before finding the fulfillment of what we are waiting for.  This Advent, however, ultimately we wait, because we know that Christ is coming.  Come Lord, Jesus.  We are waiting for you.



Friday, November 25, 2016

Sermon on Philippians 4:4-9

Thanksgiving Year C
                                                           Rev. Adam T. Trambley                                  
November 24, 2016, St. John’s Sharon

This morning’s reading from Philippians gives a focus to our Thanksgivings today. Paul directs us to an attitude that will abound in thanksgiving to God, develop in us every other important aspect of our character, and allow us to rejoice always.  The advice is very good!

Paul starts by just telling us to rejoice in the Lord always, which is great if you can do it.  Wouldn’t we always want to be filled with joy and be in the presence of the Lord?  Well, maybe not. Maybe we really don’t want to be all about rejoicing in God all the time.  Sometimes we get an emotional payoff by being depressed or emotionally stormy or off sulking in our corner ignoring God and what God is doing for us.  Often we can even justify those feelings and attitudes as somehow ethically good by finding reasons why we have been hurt or had injustices thrust upon us or felt like we had to do more than 50% of work in whatever relationship we are resentful about.  But Paul is telling us not to live in those places.  Don’t dwell in our heads and in our hearts in the separation and isolation of pain and grudges and despair.  Instead, he says, “Rejoice!”

Figuring out how to get to rejoicing can be a struggle, though, even if we want to.  So, Paul describes how to move from the places where we are to the rejoicing we want to do.  He says, “Let your gentleness be known to everyone.”  Much of life tells us NOT to let our gentleness be known.  We might be taken advantage of, or seem weak, or any number of other things.  Certainly, we want our gentleness known around children and puppies, but “known to everyone” can be a stretch.  Yet that is what we are asked to do, and if we want to rejoice always, making our gentleness known to everyone is the next step.  We can’t rejoice if we are putting on the tough-guy or tough-girl act.  We can’t rejoice on the mountaintop if we are too busy proclaiming ourselves king of it and worrying about who is going to knock us off.  If we are going to rejoice always, we have to be able to rejoice with anyone that happens to be with us.  And if we are going to rejoice with them, we have to let them in, under our defenses, and let them see our gentle, rejoicing side.  Even if we don’t quite trust them.  Even if we don’t quite like them.  Even if we aren’t quite comfortable with that idea. 

And Paul knows that we aren’t comfortable with this constant gentleness idea, so he tells us next, “The Lord is near.”  If the Lord is near, that changes the equation because we can’t be tougher than the Almighty Lord of Hosts.  If he has our back, we can really let ourselves be open to everyone.  That doesn’t mean that we should be a victim and Paul isn’t saying not to avoid dangerous people and situations.  But Paul is saying, “Do not worry about anything.”  Instead, Paul says to make prayers and supplications to God with thanksgiving.  Instead of worrying about the situation, however good or bad it might be, give thanks to God for where we are and what we need. The fact that we have some need that we are taking to God is cause for rejoicing is and of itself.  Instead of worrying about requiring God’s help, or trying to avoid asking for God’s help out of some warped sense of self-reliance, or deciding we can make it without God’s help, we are to ask for God’s help and give thanks that we are in a position of having to rely on God to help us.  This attitude does not seem to be the most common advice given on how to run a life – be especially thankful when things don’t seem to be going your way so that you can ask for help. –yet that is exactly what the Bible is saying.  And that is the only attitude that gets us to rejoicing always.  If we are not in need, rejoicing is not that difficult.  But when we are in need, we rejoice in the ability to come before the throne of heaven and ask for what we need, knowing that the Lord is near.  Our gentleness helps us see that we need to go ask God, instead of trying to go out and aggressively solve all our problems and meet our needs ourselves.

Then Paul throws another curve at us.  We might expect Paul to say, “If you ask with thanksgiving and gentleness, whatever you need will be given to you.”  Jesus makes statements about praying and receiving that sound something like this.  But Paul doesn’t say we’ll necessarily get what we ask for.  He says that we will get the “peace of God which surpasses all understanding and keeps our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”  I assume that Paul believes we’ll get what we need because we are children of God and he knows that God takes care of us.  But he also knows that bad things happen.  He himself was beaten, falsely imprisoned, left for dead, shipwrecked, and a number of other less than pleasant things.  He knows that God’s peace is of primary importance to us.  Why?  Because that peace of God will protect us so that we know we are in Christ Jesus.  That peace of God will allow us to believe that the Lord is near.  That peace of God will allow us to bring before God our needs with thanksgiving and not give up when it is difficult, or grumble when the answer to prayer doesn’t seem to be what we want, or throw up our hands and abandon the whole Christian enterprise when we meet opposition, persecution, or other obstacles.  Without that peace, receiving everything that we might ask for isn’t going to help us because we will either find that we always want more or that we become anxious that we will lose what we already have. Paul assures us that when we bring our prayers and supplications with thanksgiving, the peace of God will guard us.

Then Paul spends a little bit of time talking about what we need to do to continue to live in that peace of God.  His basic advice is not to leave it.  He says to keep our minds focused on good things – whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, pleasing, commendable, excellent, worthy of praise, or done by Paul.  When we think about these things, we are focusing our energies on situations and activities that will bring us closer to God and bring our lives in line with his will for us.  We will develop characters that see the true, the honorable, the just, the pure, the pleasing, the commendable, the excellent, and the worthy of praise all around us so that we can steer our lives into them. 

Does this matter?  Certainly. There was a study done recently that said that a huge contributor to keeping marriages intact and avoiding divorce was kindness.  When people focused on negative behaviors of their spouses or gave them the cold shoulder and ignored them, they missed the positive things that their spouse was actually doing.  The difference in their attitudes was a crucial difference in having a happy and successful marriage.  The key difference was not in changing what was going on, but in seeing the positive pieces of what was actually going on.  When we focus on these positive aspects of our reality, we are able to see them and we will be much more able to ask God to fill in the gaps.  And we will be able to ask with thanksgiving because we will be expecting to find the positive even in those gaps.

I doubt I need to say much about what happens when we decide to focus on the opposite of what Paul recommends – the dishonorable, the unjust, the impure, the vile, the base, the violent, the lazy, or the banal.  We start to see only those things around us.  Look at the disastrous aftermath of a political campaign that focused on the negative in all parties.  It’s much harder to find peace or reconciliation or to pray for the very real needs of our nation and its leaders with thanksgiving.  Or evaluate the differences in our own reactions after watching different movies.  If I’ve seen the wrong thing, I get uncomfortable walking down the street – is someone in that car going to try to gun me down?  Is that little old lady really a secret ninja assassin in disguise? These things actually go through my brain.  Which is why I feel like I have to pray or read uplifting things at least as much as I’m exposed to the fearful.  At least so far, I haven’t come across secret hit-men or had a meteor drop out of the sky on my head, but if I’m in the wrong headspace I’m not grateful for that, I’m just worried about the disaster that I’ve conditioned myself to believe is coming.  I’m much happier, though, walking around giving thanks to God and blessing people I encounter, letting my gentleness be known to everyone as much as I can, than I am being afraid of them.

Rejoice in the Lord always.  Be gentle.  Pray with thanksgiving to God. Focus on the positive blessings of life.  And let the peace of God be with you this Thanksgiving Day and every day!