Sunday, May 6, 2018

As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you


Easter 6B 2018 RCL
                                                        Rev. Dr. Adam T. Trambley                               
May, 8 2018, St. John’s Sharon

On the night before he died for us, Jesus had gathered his friends for a meal.  After eating with them and washing their feet, he talked with them, encouraged them, and prayed for them. Today’s gospel is in the middle of that last supper discourse, and we hear it with two separate ears. On one side of our head, we hear the preparation for the loss, the separation, the suffering and the death to come.  On the other side, we hear Jesus’ words in the light of his resurrection victory having ourselves received the power of his Holy Spirit.

“As the Father has loved me,” Jesus said, “so I have loved you.”  How exactly has the Father loved Jesus? The answer is difficult, in part because we aren’t privileged to see the Father and the Son when they are spending time together in realms of inapproachable light from before time and forever.  We do know, however, that the Father has put all things into the Son’s hand, and that the Father raised Jesus from the dead and put all his enemies under his feet.  We know that the Father has made Jesus the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation, through whom all things have come into being.  Yet, we also know that the Father sent him to reconcile the world back to himself.  Jesus received the ministry of salvation from the Father, and although Jesus himself freely choses to undertake that ministry, his obedience to his Father’s will led him to his passion and death, as well as the other sufferings of our mortal existence.  The Father’s love for Jesus is not a sweet, sentimental love, but a profound love that offers Jesus a central place in the midst of his own life and work.  The Father’s love for Jesus provides him a challenging and satisfying and life-giving purpose, but that purpose also involves trial and sacrifice.

Jesus says he loves us just as the Father loves him.  This love should probably terrify us more than comfort us.  If we are honest, the depth of Jesus’ love for us is not what we would chose.  A love that causes the Word to be made flesh and dwell among us.  A love so passionate that it reaches out and compels us to acknowledge it, to respond to it, to be transformed by it.  A love we might want to hide from, to shield ourselves from, to allow to pass over us without crossing the lintels of our house.  A love that sacrifices more than we could ever imagine for each and every one of us.  A love for us just like the Father’s love for Jesus. 

That love of Jesus for us opens for us a place in the life and work of Jesus. He calls us to abide in his love, which means that we are united with him.  We say that we are baptized into his death and also baptized into his resurrection.  What gets left out of many of our creeds and affirmations, however, is how we are also baptized into his love, into his passion – not just the passion of those days leading up to his death, but also the passion that describes the fierce desire for each and every one of us to share in the abundance of his life starting today.  Abiding in that self-giving love that Jesus has for the world means that we share in the mission and ministry he has received from the Father.  Abiding in that self-giving love means that we also have a challenging and satisfying and life-giving purpose that will require trials and sacrifice.  Abiding in that self-giving love means that we live in obedience to Jesus’ commandments to love one another.

Jesus tells us that following his commandments and abiding in his love will bring us joy.  Grounding ourselves in Jesus love means that his joy is us and our joy will be complete.  The fullness of joy can only come to us when we are living into the purpose that we have been made for.  We can’t hope to find joy if we are running away from God.  Joy comes when we embrace who we are made to be and allow God to transform and empower us as agents of his love in the world. 

Joy is not the same as fun, however.  The love Jesus us calls us into is described as laying down one’s life for one’s friends.  We know that Jesus laid down his life for us on the cross.  We, too, are called to lay down our lives for one another.  Usually, however, we don’t lay it down in a dramatic, all-at-once kind of way.  Some people do.  We know the examples of people who have given their lives to protect and defend those they love, whether from foreign aggression, from rampant crime, from fires, or from other natural disasters.  We also have the witness of generations of martyrs who laid down their lives rather than betray their faith in Jesus.  For some of us, a time may come when the love of God compels us to such a sacrifice.  Most of us, however, lay down our lives for one another in smaller acts of love.  We sacrifice our lives day by day in obedience to the loving purpose of God.

These acts of sacrificial love can take many forms.  We stay up all night holding hands with someone who is dying, offering the only comfort left to them.  We hold a sick infant, beyond when our arms want to fall off and our eyelids want to close, knowing that as they throw up on us we are going to get the same flu bug they have.  We give up a full-time job, and the income and security that comes with it, to stay home and raise children, or we work extra jobs to make sure that our children have what they need.  We foster and adopt children that need homes, knowing full well that even beyond the normal challenge of child-rearing we are invited a whole host of issues into the middle of our lives.  We stick with our spouse when it seems like things are worse, not better, poorer, not richer, in sickness, and not in health, finding ways to love and be present when going away would seem so much easier.  We take the time to listen to another person when spilling out our own problems would make us feel better or when turning up the TV and ignoring everyone else would be so much less work.  We make a commitment to those in need, giving time and money generously to others when we have plenty of ways to use those resources for ourselves.  We pray for other people, pouring out our hearts to bring them before the throne of God when we have so many other things we could be doing.  Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day, week by week, month by month, year by year, as we live out Jesus commandment to us, we come to find that we have, in fact, laid down our lives for those we have come to love ever more deeply, just as Jesus laid down his live for us.

Jesus gives us three additional insights into this love that he has shared with us and commands us to share with others.  First, he says that we are his friends.  We aren’t his servants anymore, but we are his friends because we know what he is about.  He has shared with us his purpose and mission.  He has commissioned us to participate.  We are not blindly obeying a set of commandments we don’t understand.  We lay down our lives for others because we have experienced Jesus lay down his life for us.  We have a role to play in deciding how and where we lay down our lives because as Jesus’ friends, we have a role to play in how this plan of God unfolds.  We are obedient, but we are also given the great privilege of having some input in how we spread the love of God.

Second, Jesus says we have not chosen him, but he has chosen us.  Being here today was not our idea.  We are here because Jesus picked us.  He chose us by loving us as the Father loved him.  He specifically chose us so that our lives would bear good fruit.  We can love other because he first loved us, and since we have been loved first, we are selected by Jesus’ divine choice to go and make a difference in the world.

Finally, Jesus says, the Father will give whatever we ask in his name.  This asking is not unconditional.  We can’t just ask in Jesus’ name to get a pony and expect it to appear.  I mean, maybe you’ll get a donkey or something on Palm Sunday that way, but Jesus isn’t promising a divine vending machine. Instead, he is saying that because we have been selected to bear fruit – because he chose us as his friends to be part of the mission and ministry that the Father gave him – when we are praying to be able to bear fruit, God will give us what we need to do so.  At least part of what this means is that we can ask for the strength and courage and wisdom to lay down our lives in love for our friends, and God will sustain us.  Jesus is encouraging us to ask for whatever is necessary for us to live out Jesus’ commandment to love one another, however difficult.  We are invited to pray big prayers for great love and lasting fruit. When we ask, Jesus assures us that the Father is waiting to answer those prayers.

As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you.  Jesus loves us with the same passionate, intimate, sacrificial and life-giving love that the Father has for him.  He invites us into that passionate, intimate, sacrificial and life-giving love, so that we can share that love with others. The cost of that love is laying down our life for our friends.  The power of abiding in that love, however, is fullness of joy for us and the lasting fruit of Jesus’ love for those whom we love.  Jesus has chosen us, and he has promised that we can ask for whatever we need. Let us live into the fullness of that wondrous love.


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