Monday, December 16, 2019

Advent 3 2019 Patience


Advent 3A 2019
Rev. Adam T. Trambley
December 15, 2019, St. John’s Sharon

Be Patient, therefore, beloved, until the coming of the Lord.
In our second reading, James urges patience this morning.
Patience is hard.
This time of year is not one that strengthens patience.
Too often
            We are hurtling forward.
            Sometimes we are the ones making the hurtling happen
                        We are unable to sleep Christmas eve,
                                    Listening for the sound of reindeer
                                    And wanting to see what fills our stocking.
                                    And if Christmas is ten whole days away, oh no!
                        We get stuck in airports or behind the wheel
                                    For the long journey home.
                        We are cleaning the prep dishes
                                    But we can smell the tasty Christmas treats in the oven
                                                And they aren’t done yet,
                                                And the party isn’t today!
We want today to be over so we can get to tomorrow or next week!
            Other times, though, the hurtling is happening to us.
                        Time seems to fly forward and we are just not ready.
                        The decorations aren’t up yet.
                        The gifts aren’t wrapped, or even bought.
                        Three things come up unexpectedly,
                                    And we are even more behind.
                        Instead of joyfully savoring
                                    The beauty and joy and peace
                                    We are whipped into whatever is happening
                                                By a whirlwind of checklists,
                                                            Responsibilities, and expectations.

Patience is the opposite,
            And the antidote,
            To all the accelerating and the anxiety.
Patience is the firm conviction that
            We are all OK today because God is with us
            And that tomorrow is in God’s hands as well.
Patience is a practice
            That we have to return to
again and again
            As we gain it
and lose it
and get a little back
                        And wonder where our last shred of it went.

Patience is the deep acknowledgement
            In the core of our being
            That we are not in charge,
                        That we not in control,
                        And that we do not have the final word.
Patience is an attitude of deep humility
            That where we are,
                        Right now,
                        Today,
            Is a gift,
            And it is a gift with no reservations or hesitations or equivocations.
We might know that things could be better,
            And wish they were,
            Or know that things could be worse,
                        And even be grateful that they aren’t.
But patience is not looking at might have been’s
            Or should be’s
            Or thank God it isn’t’s.
Patience is present to the moment right here before us,
            And to the people right here before us,
            and patience welcomes everything
                        with joy and acceptance.

James knew how hard such patience is
            And the early Christians he wrote to
            Had reason to be really impatient.
They were waiting for the coming of the Lord.
            Not the feast of the Lord’s first coming at Christmas,
            With all the festivities the holiday entails.
They were waiting for the second coming,
            When the resurrected Lord Jesus would return
            And put all things to right.
They thought he might be coming any day.
            They were excited.
            They were anxious.
            They often didn’t know what to do with themselves.
Imagine knowing that Christmas was coming,
            But not knowing what day
            You might wake up and find the presents
                        under the tree.
           
The early Christians knew how amazing Jesus’ coming would be.
At the same time, they were desperate for Jesus to come back
            Because life was not going so well.
            Some were in danger from persecution,
                        And some had probably suffered imprisonment
                                    Or worse.
            Some were poor
                        And faced all the difficulties of economic insecurity.
            Some were also sick,
                        And longed for healing.
            All lived at a time with political instability
                        Economic difficult,
                        And medical uncertainty.
James tells them to be patient.
Then he them gives one illustration and two instructions.
The illustration is the patience of the farmer.
            The farmer has no control over when the crops appear.
            He has to wait for the early and the late rains.
            He has to wait for the seed in the ground to sprout
                        And the sprout to shoot up
                        And the shoot to bud
                        And the bud to ripen
                        And the grain to be ready.
            The farmer can’t really make things go faster
                        Or skip any steps.
            The farmer has to wait for God to do God’s work,
                        And at the right time he can harvest.
            While he is waiting, the farmer isn’t bored, right?
            There are plenty of things to be done on the farm
                        In the meantime.
            All of those chores are important, and to be done well.
            But the farmer’s to-do list today
                        Doesn’t really make the grain ripen faster.

James also provides two instructions.
The first instruction is not to grumble against one another.
            Whatever we are experiencing           
                        And the time it is taking
                        Is not really somebody else’s fault.
            If we want to judge them,
                        James says we can expect to be judged.
            Blaming everyone else does not make time move faster.
            Tearing down the people around us
                        Does not help us welcome the present moment
                        That God has given us.
            If the person ahead of us is moving too slowly,
                        We are meant to recognize that slowed-down moment
As a gift,
and be grateful for it.
                        Not get irate at the person in front of us.
Anytime we find ourselves grumbling,
            Even if that grumbling is only in our heads,
            We should probably stop
            And focus on being grateful
                        For where we are and who we are
                        And What is going on around us
                        That we are able to experience this very moment.
Grumbling makes it much more difficult for us to be patient
            Because we have decided that we are stuck where we are.
            Instead, we have to recognize that God is present where we are
                        And God is preparing to do something with us
                        Even if it will happen in God’s time.
In James’ day, there was plenty to grumble about,
            And some of their predicaments were caused
                        By bad people.
And James still says do not grumble.

The second instruction is take the prophets as an example.
            They often suffered and were patient.
The key, however, was that they spoke in the name of the Lord.
The reason speaking in the name of the Lord was important,
            Is because they knew how God acted.
            They knew God’s character
                        And how he intervened for his children
                        With love and grace and mercy.
                        How God healed and comforted and redeemed and saved.
            The prophets continually proclaimed the salvation of God
                        To his people.
            They could not preach such good news
                        Without hearing it themselves.
When we try to be like the prophets,
            We are going to focus on how God time and again
                        Comes down to his people in their difficulty
                        And gives them the strength to endure
                        Until he brings victory.
We can hear that in the words of Mary’s Magnificat this morning.
            We hear about how God comes to the poor and the lowly
                        And keeps his promises forever.
When we remember how God shows up for us,
            We can be patient,
                        Knowing that God is coming.
                        He will show up for us.
            And it is much better to focus with hope and gratitude
on God’s deliverance
                        Than to grumble about others’ alleged mistakes
                                    That got into this mess in the first place.

James’ teaching here is important for us,
            Because the times we really need to be patient
            Are not easy
                        And they usually go far beyond holiday excitement.
Real patience is needed
            At those times in our life
            When the present moment seems unbearable
            And we can’t see our way to the future
                        We are desperate to get to.

When a marriage has fallen apart
            And we can’t imagine our life being put back together.
When a loved one has died
            And the void in our hearts seems unbearable.
When we or those we love are sick
            And the healing and recovery are uncertain
                        And drag on endlessly.
When our financial situation is challenging
            And getting it stabilized
                        Seems a long-term or even impossible project.
When we turn aside from any destructive behavior
            And have to wake up each day
            With the pain that we used to numb away.
When our own aging means that the world is shrinking
            In certain ways
            And things will not be what they were before.
Or maybe when we are waiting to meet the Lord
            At the time of our own approaching death.
We also need patience to continue to live a grounded life
In the midst of a world that has serious problems
And which can hit us hard.
The changes in a community that is depopulating instead of growing.
Our children and grandchildren moving away.
A political life that seems to divide us
            Instead of challenging us to be our best selves.
Churches that aren’t as full as they used to be.
The reality of injustice and racism and economic inequality
            And environmental destruction
            That haunt our current collective life.

All are difficult situations that tempt us to anger, despair, hopelessness,
            And the anxiety of the moment.
And in all of those situations, James urges us to patience.
Patience that does not grumble against others,
            But patience which knows that God is at work
            Right here, right now.
Not a patience that advocates a passivity or lazy acceptance
            Of things that might not be right.
But a patience recognizing that we,
            Like the farmer,
            May have some chores to do
            But the important part of those chores
                        Is that they are helping cooperate
                        With the work that God is doing.
            We may have real, important, difficult work
                        And we can patiently undertake that work
                                    With joy and acceptance.
                        Doing serious work can still be done
                                    With gratitude and thanksgiving
And without anxiety or fear.
James urges us to a patience that knows
            That the pain of today is bearable
                        With the help of God.
            And that tomorrow will be better
                        Because the God who is acting today
                        Will also be acting tomorrow
                        And the next day and the next day.
            That even if the situation does not improve
                        By some measure we have dreamed up,
                        That God is still working out his purposes
                                    And is present right beside us
James urges us to a patience
            that would focus on the power of our God
                        who is able to deal with our toughest situations
            rather than grumble against people
                        who cannot make our life worse in any way
that God cannot transform into something even better.
James urges us to a patience that ultimately
            Gives us everything we need
            To live our lives
                        Until the Lord comes.
            Such faithful, loving, Christian lives
                        Are, in the end, the point.

Be patient, therefore, beloved.
In the midst of the preparations for the
            Celebration of Jesus’ first coming at Christmas.
In the midst of those difficult times of life
            When we most need to know
                        God’s presence and power
And in all of our lives until Jesus returns or calls us home.




                                                                                   

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