Wednesday, February 26, 2020

Ash Wednesday 2020 -- Your Father Who Sees in Secret Will Reward You


Ash Wednesday 2019
Rev. Adam T. Trambley
St. John’s Sharon and Sharon First United Methodist
February 26, 2020

Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

We tend not to trust the language of reward regarding religious things. At least, we question a spiritual reward more tangible than eternal life when we die. Somehow, our human brokenness manages to turn the most sage spiritual advise into religious systems that we can game for our own ends. Jesus is speaking against such tendencies in the gospel today, where he commends almsgiving, prayer, and fasting, while advising us to avoid making a spectacle of ourselves while doing so. We know there are rewards to be gained by ostentatious alms-giving, pretentious prayer, and flashy fasting. We know how much we all long for feelings of importance and affirmation and acceptance. When we lack those, we can also run after power and prestige and wealth. Even if most people don’t find prayer and fasting the most straightforward way to lifestyles of the rich and famous, we can use anything to prop us up a bit. And who doesn’t like to see their name in an annual report, or on a plaque, or on a building?

Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

Jesus is neither ruling out nor talking about the rewards we tend to assume for prayer, fasting and almsgiving. There is a place, and even perhaps a need, for public worship, just as there is a place for lead gifts in capital campaigns. Public intercessory prayers will still be answered and public alms giving will still feed the needy. The results of spiritual disciplines is not in question, here, but rather our reward for engaging them.

What is our own reward for these pious disciplines? On the one hand, Jesus is not rewriting the rules of the same game of human advancement such that if you send in your check anonymously God will give you a bigger house, or if you fast in secret you’ll be on the fast track to bishop AND lose lots of weight. (And by the way, fasting doesn’t really help with losing weight, just like other binge diets don’t really help.) On the other hand, Jesus is not saying that if you do pray and fast and give alms in secret you will have to wait for your reward in heaven because you won’t get a reward now. Jesus is saying that your Father who sees in secret will reward you and it will be a real reward.

Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

As human beings, we need go away by ourselves to receive our rewards, and being in secret in this language means being alone. If we aren’t alone, we get distracted. We are aware of all the outer distractions in modern life. The addicting buzz of social media notifications. The seemingly-urgent but relatively unimportant task we have to complete this minute. The TV and music and every other bit of entertainment the world has convinced us we need to have running constantly in the background. To actually stop and pray, we need some way to silence the noise around us.

We also need to silence the noise within us. That silencing is even harder to do than shutting off our phones if we don’t go to our own place where it is only us and God. When others are around, we can’t help but feel somewhat inhibited. We may need to let our aching hearts cry, but tears won’t come if we around others, even those we love. We may need to sing with joy, but we aren’t going to belt out our favorite hymn if someone else might hear it. We may feel a great cheerfulness in giving our gift, until we have it listed beside other gifts and suddenly feel that our extravagant generosity is unimportant when printed beneath the gifts of wealthier individuals. Our all-too-human sense of inadequacy keeps us from receiving Jesus’ rewards for our work when we are with others. Jesus’ words caution against pride and hypocrisy, but his advice is even more essential for all of us struggling to accept that we are worthy of the extravagant, overwhelming love that God pours out upon us. The love is ultimately our reward, and we cannot receive that reward until we are willing to accept such love. Our spiritual disciplines teach us how to accept God’s love, but we learn such acceptance in secret.

Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

Our deepest, truest reward is three-fold.

First, and most importantly, we receive a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ at the core of our being. Being in secret means that we are focusing what we are doing solely on Jesus. If we love someone, we spend time with them and we give special gifts to them. Such expression allows us give our love to them and receive their love for us. When we take time for prayer, or offer our fasting privately to God, or gives alms secretly so only our Father sees, we connect directly with the source of all love. As we give these small gifts of ourselves to God, God responds. The greatest gift God gives is a deeper and deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. In that relationship we know ourselves as God sees us, as his beloved children. In that relationship, we know our inheritance in the Kingdom of God, which is our home now and for eternity. In that relationship, we know that we can have already died with Christ, and will rise with Christ, and so we can live with Christ and for Christ beginning this very day.

Second, our time in secret allows the Holy Spirit the opportunity to come in our silence, stillness, and solitude to bring us healing and peace. We are all broken. We all have cracks in our deepest being from pain caused by others and by the sins we have committed. We have no power in ourselves to heal ourselves. But God can heal us. Our repentance is turning from all the things that increase our brokenness and toward the one who can actually heal it. The spiritual disciplines we do in secret let God know that we have offered this time, or this part of our selves for God to do with as he will. When we offer that opportunity, the Holy Spirit will use that opportunity for our own good. Our wounds begin to heal. The parched places within us experience the slow bubbling of new springs welling up. Our fears and anxieties are calmed and our hearts are softened as the soothing balm of God’s grace seeps into every crack and crevice in our soul. This work does not happen overnight, but it happens consistently, a little at a time, as we make time to pray in secret and fast in secret and give in secret.

Third, our Father rewards us with the fruits of each particular spiritual discipline as we look to God as we do them instead of glancing around to see how others respond. The fruit of prayer is love. Our prayer in secret increases our love for those we are praying for. Prayer is like a stream cutting a channel of love between us and others. A trickle of prayer will develop some love, and significant prayer is a raging river cutting canyons between us that fill up with lakes and seas of love. Praise and adoration lets us love God more deeply. Intercession gives us great love for others. Confession and contemplation allows us to deepen our love for ourselves.

The reward for our secret fasting is freedom. As we give up food or other things that we rely on, we recognize that the things of this world hold less sway over us than we thought. We find that we can have a meal delayed and not yell at everyone around us because we are hungry. We can fast from various media and realize the world has not ended because we have not been constantly engaged. We are given the great reward of remembering that we only need Jesus, and nothing else need have any power over us. When we are free of the tyranny of what we had falsely decided we need, we are free to love and follow Jesus in ever deepening ways.

When we give alms secretly, we are rewarded with God’s abundance. We find that we can never give more to others than God gives to us. We know the joy that we will never out-give God. We learn to live extravagantly in our generosity while we also learn to receive the extravagance of God for us. The smallness of our lives is slowly replaced by the realization that it is indeed our Father’s good pleasure to give us the Kingdom and that we, as our Father’s children, also receive immense pleasure as we give our greatest treasures away. We can live in the abundance of the one who created the universe and wants to share all of it with us.   

Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

When we pray and fast and give in secret, we receive heavenly rewards, but we receive them now. A deeper relationship with Jesus, the healing of the Holy Spirit, and lives of love, freedom and abundance are all rewards that are treasures stored up in heaven. They are our inheritance for eternal life. They never expire or fade away. And they matter now. We don’t wait until we die to receive them. We are able to live them out now. These rewards and all our treasure may be in heaven, which means our hearts are set on heaven as well. With our hearts set on heaven, we get to live today as if we are already in the Kingdom of God. Lent is the time the church sets aside so we intentionally do the work we need to do to live for the Kingdom today. To pray. To fast. To give alms. And to do them in a way that reaps the most important rewards. A deeper relationship with Jesus Christ. The Holy Spirit’s healing and wholeness. The love and freedom and abundance that characterize the life of the Kingdom of God.  

And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

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